There is a huge difference between talent and background, sometimes even a world of difference, there is no way to cross the gap. There are too many ups and downs in life. Only with an ordinary heart can we live in prosperity and loneliness, and be stable in those years.
For myself, the most important thing is. Work hard, not envy others. It is enough to be able to do the best on our own basis. You have not worked hard, just in the envy of others, then envy to the end or nothing. Sometimes you can't finish the task, can't reach the goal, in the heart also unavoidably impatient.
Don't let yourself indulge in the feeling of loss. The most important thing is always to get up where you fall and reflect on your shortcomings. It's enough to change what we can. There are always some things we can't resist. Keep a normal mind.
It's very important to keep an ordinary mind, that is, not to look up too much to other people's lives, and not to belittle oneself. There are too many people in life, always with a sour grape mentality, do a lemon essence, it is not necessary for others to have what, you ask also do not know how many difficulties he has experienced.
Or even if the other party is really the son of heaven, once he is born, he will have the best time, the best place and the best people. What's the point of admiring or saying some sarcastic words?